I do not want to spend the rest of my life worrying about the next tragedy, or in my case, the first tragedy. There is nothing I can do to prevent it.
Bad things will happen, no matter how much I hope against hope that they won’t. Planes will fall out of the sky, cars will crash, and hearts will stop beating. For this I have no solution. Attempting to fight against these disasters is only bringing them into my life. Fighting against tragedy is a negative act in itself. You must avoid travel to stop accidents, you must kill to stop fighting, you must stop living to prevent loss of life. I would be fighting one negative with another, and it is a battle I can not win.
Bad things will happen. However I have found a solution, and a course of action that will not drown my soul in the process. To fight against tragedy my life can be a source of anti-tragedy. I can not live my life striving to stop bad, but I can live my life to do good.
From the moment you wake up in the morning to the moment you drift away to sleep you can tailor your actions to make the world a better place, even if all you can affect is your own small world surrounding your own small life. This is the only way to truly win the fight against tragedy.
What exactly it means to ‘do good’ can certainly be debated. If you are not careful your concept of what is ‘good’ and what is ‘bad’ can be so skewed that you end up creating more problems than you have solved, a favorite pastime of evangelical Christians. But you can examine your own morality and your own actions. You can reason through your everyday decisions, and be convinced that what you are doing is ‘right’. The steps toward this ‘good’ are small, not drastic, but they are absolutely necessary if you want to shelter yourself from the eminent regret and loss of a tragic and wasted life.
My solution can be summed up like this: I can not spend my days fighting against all the bad things in life, but I can know that every day that I exist makes the world a better place.